How Do I Get This Girl?

Afternoon Love guru! I admire and like this girl I met on a three days seminar who lodged with a guy.

I approached her on the first day and she gave me her contact details. While flirting with each other, I got to understand she doesn't like her man. On the third day she checked out quite early and called me but I missed it. In the process of returning her call, she sent a text message that read, "Thank you but I needed to leave. I do not understand you but I am engaged. I don't think I wanna give up just yet in order to hit... "

So please how do you think I can get this girl in a snap of fingers? Thanks.

Chris, 32 years

My Relationship Depresses Me

Dear Kela,

My name is James and I'm 35. I have a girl I dated for 7 years only to discover she was dating another right under my nose. She apologized and agreed to break up with the other guy so I forgave her. We continued dating, however, I haven't given her a dime since the incident took place. Consequently, we aren't in very good terms at the moment.

I do feel bad about not giving her money but I'm scared she might hurt me again. Do I resume responsibility of her needs or do I let her go which would surely be devasting to me?

My Husband Just Called Off Our Marriage

Dear Kela,

I met this guy through a woman in my church. She told me he would be a good match for me and that he was about leaving the country. We met and I liked him as he was very devoted in church and so we got married.

It has been several years and I am now 37 years and still waiting for him. We seldom communicate and he rarely says anything about my coming over as he is not settled yet. He also never sends money. One faithful day he called only to narrate to me, his dream about my infidelity and then added that he was no longer interested.

My life right now is in shambles. I do not know where to begin from, whom to turn to and if any man will find me attractive at this age.

Please Kela what do i do?

Priscilla

Interesting Facts About relationships

1.Couples usually wait until six to eight dates before they are willing to enter into an exclusive relationship.

2.The most common time for breakups is around three to five months.

3.On average, it takes between 12 to 14 dates before couples will trade house keys.

4.Researchers at the University of Chicago found that people were twice as likely to find a date through friends and family than through the bar scene.

5.In the online dating world, women are afraid of meeting a serial killer. Men are afraid of meeting someone “fat.” According to Ann Rule, about 3% of men are psychopaths, of which only a tiny percentage are serial killers.

Interesting Facts About Love

1. It only takes up to 4 minutes to decide whether you like someone or not

If you want to make a good impression on someone, you’ve only got about 4 minutes to do it. It is believed that it has far more to do with your body language, tone and speed of your voice rather than exactly what you say.

2. When Two Lovers Gaze At Each Others’ Eyes, Their Heart Rates Synchronize

 Some extraordinary research has found that couples who are in love and bond in a romantic relationship synchronize their heart rates after gazing into each others’ eyes for three minute