Eze was living in Abuja before he got admission to go to UK for his masters. He had a girl friend called Jennifer, who was so helpful and even assisted him with live as a bachelor finding his feet in Abuja. When Eze got the admission, Jennifer called her elder sister Cynthia who lives in UK so she can pick Eze at the airport, help him settle down before Eze will find his own house. Cynthia picked Eze as arranged and let him stay in his parlour but after 4 days Cynthia asked Eze to join her in the room so she can save money from heating the parlour at nights. The winter was so bad n cold one night, Cynthia and Eze made a body contact on the bed which was very electrifying and led to them having sex. This continued every night. After sometime Cynthia could not stand the guilt of answering Jennifer's call and her questions about how Eze was behaving, told Jennifer to forget about Eze that Eze was now dating another girl here. Jennifer tried to talk to Eze but he stopped picking her calls. After 2 years plus of secret relationship, Cynthia and Eze now want to get married. Jennifer is excited in Nigeria that her sister is coming home with a man that is going to marry her without knowing the man is her own Eze. How do you think Jennifer will react and how do you advice Eze and Cynthia to go about it?
Please advice
By Sidney Chiemeka Iroegbu (guest blogger)
Well in a case like this, i understand the stigma that follows, i wud rada suggest she leaves everything into God's hands. Let God be the judge. It could be a blessing in disguise, she never can tell. She shouldn't take a drastic step, she wud end up regreting. Body chemistry is just something we can't fathom. Two opposite sex, sleeping in the same room, der wud definitely be an urge for sex. If the guy had wanted to avoid such incidence from the initial stage, he wud have declined her offer of him coming over to her room. Bt he didn't! She should just go on with her life, for God will confort her soul and restore hapiness into her life again. The guy isn't worth the fight, she shud give her sister all the support she needs or betterstill stay a mile away if she knows their presence will hurt her. Life is simple, life is short, she alone is the artificer of her joy. So if she wants to be happy, then she should be! I think a word is enough for the wise. #Guru
ReplyDeleteEze and cythia shuld be poisoned by jennifer...*angry*...
ReplyDeleteHmmm...dis is a tough one. Well I know where Jennifer can get an AK47 at a cheap rate. Eze n Cynthia should ve told Jennifer abt their relationship b4 nw, so heart wld ve healed b4 their return for d wedding. Dis kind of surprise will b a total betrayal to her.
ReplyDeleteIt would definitely be hard for Jennifer to swallow, she will feel betrayed and hurt beyond measure. Eze doesn't deserve Jennifer and she doesn't deserve him-she deserves a better man. And as for Cynthia, her betrayal would be difficult for Jennifer to take but I would advice Jennifer to console herself with knowing that there's a better man for her out there. He'll find her, definitely...
ReplyDeleteForget Eze, he s just another horny jerk who doesn't know when to draw the line at free P****...electric touch my foot!!..(good riddance!!)...usually I blame the guy but in this case,I blame cynthia..u don't fuckin do that to your own sister.
ReplyDeleteWell the deed has bin done! So jennifa has 2 move on....its a lesson tho...
ReplyDeleteWhoa!This is a hard one.If I were Jennifer,after I've forgiven them,I ll never have anything 2 do wit them,I ll move on with my life&pray for a better guy.But seriously,Cynthia aint a good sister at all!
ReplyDeleteYea she definitely has to move on!
ReplyDeleteVery tough one, Jenny shud leave evry to God, cos what's meant to b would b,no struggles and fighting!!
ReplyDeleteIn life we should brace ourselves to withstand anything. Of course jennifer will be shocked when she finds out but then, I think its all for the best. Eze simply has no 'Respect' for her so, she should let them be. Karma will take care of the rest.
ReplyDeletewell...one thing that is significant in this case is that cynthia and Eze have not told jennifer about their intentions. so am more concerned that jennifer's reactions would be more hormonal and she may not be able to control it. and she might end up regretting what she could possibly do. so my advice is that the duo should inform jennifer...give her time and lets pray she can be managed
ReplyDeleteY'all shouldn't be quick to judge in cases like this. You cnt be too sure till it happens to you. A saying in common parlance goes thus "Goat and Yam no fit stay d same house". The question is, how can d situation be ameliorated? Shit has hit d fan and everywhere is gonna be messy when d duo arrive. My advice to Jenny is for her to 4give them and move on. At least it's now evident her man isn't trust worthy and her sister too is egocentric. It's a hard one for jenny but that's Love and life for you. Love is like the little red toy wagon you get for ur Christmas or your sixth birthday. It makes you deliriously happy and you just can't leave it alone. But sooner or later, the wheels come off then you leave it in a corner and forget it cos falling in love is great but being in Love could lead to a disaster. She should move ON!!!!!!!!!!
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