My Pastor Said We Can't Get Married

Dear Kela,

I am a young lady in my late twenties, I have been in my present relationship for the past 3 years. My boyfriend proposed last year and we intended to walk down the aisle later this year, until my pastor dropped the bombshell last month. He said he saw a vision, that we should not get married because the marriage will not work out, that I’ll be single in no distant time. I have been depressed since then, my fiancée wants us to go ahead, and our families are in full support though we have not told them what my pastor said. Within me I feel so right about my decision to marry him. Am still confused cos I love him so much. On the other hand, how do I disobey the vision the pastor had concerning my future. What if I go ahead with the marriage and things turn out like the Pastor said? But the mere thought of leaving my fiancée is unthinkable.

Please what do I do?

Anita

I Had Sex With My Boss To Give My Boyfriend A Job

Dear Love Guru,
I’m in love with an amazing guy and we have been dating for 3 years now. Everything seem to be heading for marriage until he lost his job a year ago. I work as a sales rep in a pharmaceutical company. Despite numerous applications and interviews he is yet to secure another job which makes him depressed cause I have to cater for his needs most times.

So I decided to meet my boss at the office and he decided to help with the connection of his friends. He accepted but requested s*x with me, after giving it much thought I agreed to just a one time stuff. I sacrificed for him. True to my boss's promise my boy friend got a job in one of the multinationals. Though my boss still makes passes at me I have refused to sleep with him since then.

As fate would have it my boyfriend stumbled on the messages on my phone when I asked him to help me get it from a phone repairer since the repairer told me the phone will be flashed. He found out the whole thing. He quit the job instantly. Though he picks my calls he has not said anything to me. I feel so confused, cause I only intended to help.

Please what do I do
Nike