Some people determine their sexual involvement based on physical rather than communication and moral values, I agree that sex is a personal responsibility and must be determined personally. On the other hand, sex involves two people, so it's not just a matter of personal standards. There are those who feel no one has the right to state any standard for sex and it should just be left at: sex with anybody is okay...well, I disagree!
THERE IS MORE TO A RELATIONSHIP THAN "SEX" !
A relationship is about caring for someone, and how do you SHOW this affection, through Patience, Communication, Kindness, Understanding, self-control, trust, respect, and fighting fair. “Avoid blame and judgment. When you start a relationship with someone, You are looking for the real thing. Don't give in to sex if you are not ready, bottom line. If you don't have sex, and the guy doesn't like it, he is not worth it and probably doesn't care enough about you. If you talked about your future and have dated a while and want to express your love for one another, sex is fine and can be fantastic.
If you aren't sleeping together, you are more like "friends" than anything but that is a great basis for a long-lasting relationship. Give it time. Don't give in and if the guy sticks around, even without sex, he really cares!
What if u don't want the sex, but he wants it, and u love him.....some ppl hav sex with d guy to please him, not bcs dey want it, but because they ar scared the guy will leav them
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ReplyDeleteWell to me sex is more than what people think it is. To me sex makes up the command in a relationship. If two loves are dating for about 1 to 2 years and both of them did not have sex that kind of relationship is build with lies. Am 99.9% sure that both of them are having sex somewhere. To me sex makes up a relationship much more stronger
ReplyDeleteSo when u meet a gal you barely know, the next week or two weeks u start asking her for sex or even the next month???
DeleteHope u practice what you preach?
That's not it, sex dos not say u most date a woman for long before u can meet. Even if u date for 5years before u have sex its still the samehing as being the first day. Cos what u had together is still call SEX
DeleteGuy its not abeg. You should respect the lady enough not to ask for it at all esp if u just met.
Deleteℓ̊ understand that sometimes sex in a relationship is called for, bt it shud be a mutual aggreement between both parties. The basis of a relationship shouldn't be on sex. Ders more to a healthy relationship than random sex. Don't have sex cos u r trying to pls ur partner or u r scared u mite loose him, den ders no love! If he truely loves u, he wud be patient with u. Sex doesn't keep sustain a relationship, period!. #Guru
ReplyDeleteHonestly α very mutual agreement!
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