I got this email from one of my ardent readers.
Dear Love Guru
I recently found out my girlfriend is being financially supported by a man she met some years ago before we started dating. He buys her expensive gifts, gives her lots of money any time she asks, beyond what I am capable of providing. She swears they don't sleep together or have any intimate encounters at all, though they meetup and hang out once in awhile. She insists he is just a friend that she doesn't have anything to do with. I know she met this man before I came into the picture, but now that I am in. Is it possible that she is telling the truth and has had no physical relations with this man?. How could a man give a woman anything she wants, if she’s not reciprocating in kind? If I stay with her is there anyway she'll cut this off to be with me? Please help.
Worried Ken
Is it okay for a lady to accept financial assistance from other men if her man is not financially stable to cater for her needs?