Need Help! My Girl Friend Slaps Me Whenever I Upset Her

Dear Kela,

I have a huge problem right this very moment! My girlfriend slaps me every time I get her pissed, I can’t remember how it started but I hoped she would stop. Last week, after an argument, which made me swear impulsively at her, she slapped me and for the first time I lost it and retaliated, I beat her up mercilessly. After which she fell ill, though I took full responsibility of her medicals I am scared she is might call it quits after she recovers. 

Please what do I do?

Adeyemi

Help! My Girlfriend Accepts Financial Assistance From Other Men

I got this email from one of my ardent readers. 

Dear Love Guru

I recently found out my girlfriend is being financially supported by a man she met some years ago before we started dating. He buys her expensive gifts, gives her lots of money any time she asks, beyond what I am capable of providing. She swears they don't sleep together or have any intimate encounters at all, though they meetup and hang out once in awhile. She insists he is just a friend that she doesn't have anything to do with. I know she met this man before I came into the picture, but now that I am in. Is it possible that she is telling the truth and has had no physical relations with this man?. How could a man give a woman anything she wants, if she’s not reciprocating in kind? If I stay with her is there anyway she'll cut this off to be with me? Please help.

Worried Ken

Is it okay for a lady to accept financial assistance from other men if her man is not financially stable to cater for her needs?