In your relationship you will always make promises. Make sure you do this after you know enough about that person. Just because he says he swears on you doesn't mean he will keep it. He will lie to you and you will lie to him just to keep things happy and perfect, just because you get into fights doesn't mean your relationship is ending, sometimes it means that you guys are growing. So just hold on, but if you are unhappy tell him, don't keep it in. Before you ask someone to go steady with you, or accept an offer, really consider it. There are a lot of fun people out there, people you might be interested in. Are you SURE you are ready to turn them down because you are already taken? One of the worst things you could possibly do is say "yes" because it´s nice at the time, and then break the trust later because someone else seemed interesting. It´s much better to admit you´re not ready to shut off all options, and be honest up front. Are you going steady?
