Unreturned Love

The worst thing that can crush one's ego is unreturned love. The first thing one must understand is LOVE. There is no force that is more potent than LOVE. When it is expressed to someone and it is not returned, it makes one's life miserable. Love is the most important of success. Unreturned Love demoralizes someone. It only takes the strong hearted people to bear the pain of unreturned love.

When you are in love, be careful so as not to drown in love. U can sink in love. Unreturned love is also reaping what we have sown; in the sense that, everyone in this world has a crush that we so much love, but the person u have a crush on may not  have the smallest unit of a feeling for you not to even talk of returning the Love you are showing. This simply "those who love us, we don't love them and those who we love, don't love us".

Unreturned love can come in diverse ways: It can come before a relationship kicks off or It can also arise during the course of a relationship. It is better to encounter it before the relationship kicks off than it popping up during the relationship. When it pops up during a relationship, try your best to get the Love u worth back in return with all your instinct but don't make a mistake of forcing the relationship to stand because if you do that, it implies that you demean yourself, tolerate insults and abuse on yourself, live with out integrity, personal dignity and honour will be reduced on your part. After you might have tried your best and it didn't work out fine, just let go and start a refreshed life by changing your entire thinking because you cant change your life if you don't change your thinking....

Conclusively, be wise, be attentive and intellectual to tackle unreturned Love whenever you encounter it.

Love VERSUS Lust

1. Love is unselfish, it cares about the interest of others WHILE lust is selfish and restrictive.

2. Romance in Love starts slowly. (It can take up to few months to a year before it starts) WHILE lust starts fast. (Within hours or days).

3. When you are in Love, you are attracted by the person's personality and self suiting qualities WHILE in lust, you are deeply inpressed or interested in other's physical appearance.

4. The effect of Love makes you a better person WHILE the effect of lust is destructive and disorganizing.

5. When you are in Love, you view each other realistically, seeing each other's faults, yet loving each other WHILE lust is unrealistic, the other person seems perfect, you tend to ignore nagging doubts about serious flaws.

6. Love allows disagreements to be talked and settled WHILE lust doesn't permit that, instead, arguments are frequent, nothing really gets settled (if settled, it's with a Kiss).

7. True Love always wants to give and share with the other WHILE lust lays its emphasis on taking, especially in self satisfaction.

8. Genuine Love grows stronger with time and becomes a perfect bond of union WHILE lust reaches a fever pitch in no time and then fades.

Conclusively, romantic bonds are forged with no prospect of marriage in sight... Watch.

-Guru Jennifer

How to know if a woman loves you

1. Willingness to sacrifice

If a woman loves you she has the willingness to sacrifice. There are things that people will not do for anyone but the people that they love. Look for things that differentiate how your woman treats you and how she treats other people in her life. Are you one of the priorities? Do you come first before her friends? Does she do things for you that she would not do for other people? These are keys on how special you really are to her? Has she sacrificed some things just to be with you? These are the things that indicate just how special you are to her.

2. Worry-wart

Some women may not say much but they worry for the safety of the people they love. This is one way to know if a woman loves you. When what you do affects them in some way, this means that you matter in their lives. This is one of the most obvious signs of love in a person because you care enough to worry for their safety. You can tell if a woman loves you if she worries for your safety.

3. Jealousy

Although jealousy may not necessarily be a good thing when you think about it, a hint of it is a sign that a person is into you. There is jealousy if a woman loves you. A dose of jealousy is actually healthy to a relationship as it validates feelings and reassures the partner that the other is afraid of losing you to someone else. Of course too much of it can also be detrimental. Learn to balance and solve jealousy issues immediately. If in case the woman you love is not yet into you, don't lose hope there are things that you can do to attract someone you love. Do you want to discover the powerful, step-by-step secrets of how to meet, attract, and create a lasting and fulfilling relationship with the kind of person you've always wanted? Even if you're shy or don't think you are good looking. Imagine how good you'll feel about yourself when you have the confidence and knowledge to attract the woman of your dreams and keep her forever.

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