Saturday 20 July 2013

Relationship Etiquette



When we get to the point where, instead of compromising, we're just not willing to do another thing. Unquestionably, we do create potholes in our relationships that don't need to be there. Navigating those speed bumps requires a bit of consideration and etiquette.

1. Don't be demeaning
We all occasionally take each other for granted, but putting down your partner, ignoring them in favor of a smartphone or deliberately belittling their achievements is the kind of thing they'll remember for a long time..

2. Compromise
Rules are meant to be broken, so be willing to take each situation as it comes and adjust appropriately. Successful couples end up resolving this type of thing by deferring to the partner to whom the issue matters more.

3. Don't play the blame game
Accepting your responsibility when things go awry isn't just smart, it's respectful. Don't hold your choices over someone else's head if it doesn't work out.

4. Schedule a date night
Whether it's a movie and popcorn at home or a stroll to your favorite patio for a drink, couples should be creative and be observant enough to know what his or her partner likes.

5. Skip flirty fun with others
Flirting isn't a good idea, while it's mostly harmless, you should stay within acceptable limits and never say anything you'd be embarrassed to have your partner hear.

6. Remember the little things
If your partner makes your tea every morning, make sure you reciprocate with a small unlooked-for-gesture. It's amazing how that will impact your relationship. 




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