A guy came to me saying he caught his girlfriend in bed with some other guy, Now he's confused about what to do, he needs my counsel and your opinion. So dear readers "What would you do if you caught your girlfriend cheating?"
If am a guy,if I truly love her, I would call her to order,do a hrt to hrt talk asking her y she cheated, what she sees in order other guy she doesn't see in,if der are actually things she doesn't see in u, try and adjust urself so things cud get beta btwn u two,but if u adjust urself n tins doesn't get beta, pls walk out n don't return,meanwhile if u knw fully well u meet up wit her nids rite frm d onset,stil try n mk tins work if u love her but if u don't walk out!
First, I'll throw the stupid guy out. Definitely she should be begging and when i find myself yelling at her, (no beatings) I keep my distance from her till my anger dies down (reacting when emotions are high always leads to mistakes). then, I'll try to find out why she did it. But whatever the reason , this would definitely damage the trust I have for her, and that will take time to heal. If I'm able to understand, forgive and trust her again, she stays, but if I can't trust her anymore, well, off she goes! Cos trust must be present in a relationship for it to work.
He should take her back if she's truly sorry and shows remorse for her actions .But before taking her back,he should torture her a lil so dat whenever she remembers what she went through b4 she was forgiven,she wouldn't think of repeating what she did.We are humans and most times we make mistakes while thinking we were doing the right thing.2nd chance is allowed.
He should take her back if she's truly sorry and shows remorse for her actions .But before taking her back,he should torture her a lil so dat whenever she remembers what she went through b4 she was forgiven,she wouldn't think of repeating what she did.We are humans and most times we make mistakes while thinking we were doing the right thing.2nd chance is allowed.
I wish i knew better before getting married,i married and wanted out after 2yrs in my marriage,my ex husband was so cony and a crafty cheater,he even denied and forced the ownership of a strange bra that i found in his car,i beard the humiliation for a while and decided otherwise.i came across a testimony on my Instagram page about this cyber genius''hackingloop6@gmail. c om''whom hacked and gained me access to his phone activities,his cheating ass was exposed and my divorce procedure was made easy.You can also reach hackingloop on + 1 712 292-2655,if your partner's commitment is in doubt.
I will just walk out quietly and dat will be d end of Us.
ReplyDeleteIf am a guy,if I truly love her, I would call her to order,do a hrt to hrt talk asking her y she cheated, what she sees in order other guy she doesn't see in,if der are actually things she doesn't see in u, try and adjust urself so things cud get beta btwn u two,but if u adjust urself n tins doesn't get beta, pls walk out n don't return,meanwhile if u knw fully well u meet up wit her nids rite frm d onset,stil try n mk tins work if u love her but if u don't walk out!
ReplyDeleteNice one queen
ReplyDelete@queen, dats why ♈ōϋ are not a guy!!!...me °̩ will walk away and she's gonna have to beg me very very well b4 °̩ come back.
ReplyDeleteIf I was d dude I will let ha go..dere is no need 2 shout cos she has made ha choice.
ReplyDeleteThere's always a second chance. She cud still be forgiven. Its the guy's decision to make.
ReplyDeleteFirst, I'll throw the stupid guy out. Definitely she should be begging and when i find myself yelling at her, (no beatings) I keep my distance from her till my anger dies down (reacting when emotions are high always leads to mistakes). then, I'll try to find out why she did it. But whatever the reason , this would definitely damage the trust I have for her, and that will take time to heal. If I'm able to understand, forgive and trust her again, she stays, but if I can't trust her anymore, well, off she goes! Cos trust must be present in a relationship for it to work.
ReplyDeleteIs the hrt that gets mad, but the hrt still loves. As a grl, I can always forgive the guy if it was just a fling...
ReplyDeleteHehehe this a dicey one...
ReplyDeleteYes, forgiveness is the key. Like mercy said, its just a fling, no emotions attached.
ReplyDelete@Austin, in most cases it's nt by begging, it's by commitment to words,pple can stil beg n go back to dia wrong doings!
ReplyDeleteSo true queen
ReplyDeleteHe should take her back if she's truly sorry and shows remorse for her actions .But before taking her back,he should torture her a lil so dat whenever she remembers what she went through b4 she was forgiven,she wouldn't think of repeating what she did.We are humans and most times we make mistakes while thinking we were doing the right thing.2nd chance is allowed.
ReplyDeleteHe should take her back if she's truly sorry and shows remorse for her actions .But before taking her back,he should torture her a lil so dat whenever she remembers what she went through b4 she was forgiven,she wouldn't think of repeating what she did.We are humans and most times we make mistakes while thinking we were doing the right thing.2nd chance is allowed.
ReplyDeleteI concur with you, Latifa
ReplyDeleteI wish i knew better before getting married,i married and wanted out after 2yrs in my marriage,my ex husband was so cony and a crafty cheater,he even denied and forced the ownership of a strange bra that i found in his car,i beard the humiliation for a while and decided otherwise.i came across a testimony on my Instagram page about this cyber genius''hackingloop6@gmail. c om''whom hacked and gained me access to his phone activities,his cheating ass was exposed and my divorce procedure was made easy.You can also reach hackingloop on + 1 712 292-2655,if your partner's commitment is in doubt.
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