Monday 4 February 2013

Demerits Of Being A Housewife


From the general, when anyone hears "housewife", the first thing that comes to his/her mind is: a married woman who has no job doing, a married woman who stays back at home when she's supposed to go out and fend for daily bread. Its the desire of some women to be a full housewife and some were forced to be by their husbands. The only significant merit of being a housewife is the fact that you'll have a close relationship with your children and probably bring them up just the way you want to. Being a housewife has numerous demerits.
a) Little or no respect is commanded or gained : when a woman is fully made a housewife, she can not command enough respect in the society unlike a working woman.

b) Lack of security : a housewife is not secured financially, materially, physically and of course mentally. When a woman is not financially secured, she cant be secured materially because its her finances that will create her materials; in a situation where a woman is not materially secured, the physical security won't in anyway stand and if there is no physical security, mental security cant feature in anyway.

c) Lack of exposure : a housewife (someone who stays at home all day) can't be exposed externally, she can only be exposed internally, and if one is not externally exposed, he/she is not exposed at all because external exposure is the master of all exposures.

d) Poor Packaging : a housewife, no matter how exposed she can be,can't in anyway be well packaged even if the husband is the king of packaging, that trait of a housewife will definitely show.

e) Lack of Recognition: someone who is not exposed or lacks packaging can't be recognized anywhere. That's just the truth.

f) Risk: its very risky being a housewife coz when d husband dies, the family of the husband may gang up against her. Or she will have a problem of managing whatever the deceased leaves her with.

-Jennifer

1 comment:

  1. Its dosnt actually go lik dat cz I knw of housewives dat command respect in public than women dat evn wrk.. Its varies... Nd also depend on hw xpose d women r bfr endin up as housewives, ds days lots of women r nw so wise nd vry intelligent, der might nt b goin to wrk , bt dia bank acct run faster than dos dat r evn earnin doe... Evrytin is common sens .. Nd b classy...

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