Friday 8 February 2013

Unreturned Love



The worst thing that can crush one's ego is unreturned love. The first thing one must understand is LOVE. There is no force that is more potent than LOVE. When it is expressed to someone and it is not returned, it makes one's life miserable. Love is the most important of success. Unreturned Love demoralizes someone. It only takes the strong hearted people to bear the pain of unreturned love.

When you are in love, be careful so as not to drown in love. U can sink in love. Unreturned love is also reaping what we have sown; in the sense that, everyone in this world has a crush that we so much love, but the person u have a crush on may not  have the smallest unit of a feeling for you not to even talk of returning the Love you are showing. This simply "those who love us, we don't love them and those who we love, don't love us".

Unreturned love can come in diverse ways: It can come before a relationship kicks off or It can also arise during the course of a relationship. It is better to encounter it before the relationship kicks off than it popping up during the relationship. When it pops up during a relationship, try your best to get the Love u worth back in return with all your instinct but don't make a mistake of forcing the relationship to stand because if you do that, it implies that you demean yourself, tolerate insults and abuse on yourself, live with out integrity, personal dignity and honour will be reduced on your part. After you might have tried your best and it didn't work out fine, just let go and start a refreshed life by changing your entire thinking because you cant change your life if you don't change your thinking....

Conclusively, be wise, be attentive and intellectual to tackle unreturned Love whenever you encounter it.

7 comments:

  1. Nice one kela, keep it up!

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  2. Kela, I totally relate with dis. After reading dis am totally going to pick up wat is left of my ego and stop crushing on Freddddyy. X0X0

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  3. Na xoxoxox!!!!!!

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