Dear Kela,
I am a young lady in my late twenties, I have been in my present relationship for the past 3 years. My boyfriend proposed last year and we intended to
walk down the aisle later this year, until my pastor dropped the bombshell last
month. He said he saw a vision, that we should not get married because the marriage will not work
out, that I’ll be single in no distant time. I have been depressed since then, my fiancée
wants us to go ahead, and our families are in full support though we have not
told them what my pastor said. Within me I feel so right about my decision to marry him. Am still confused cos I love him so much. On the other hand, how do I disobey the vision the pastor had concerning my future. What if I go ahead
with the marriage and things turn out like the Pastor said? But the mere thought
of leaving my fiancée is unthinkable.
Please what do I do?
Anita
am sure that pastor has seen nothing. the essence of visions is not to cause heartbreaks or bring pain....but to give caution so people can gear up for the future. so the pastor should advice the to-be-couple of ways to make the marriage work or if he (the pastor0 wants to marry the girl himself, he should tell us.
ReplyDeleteam sure that pastor has seen nothing. the essence of visions is not to cause heartbreaks or bring pain....but to give caution so people can gear up for the future. so the pastor should advice the to-be-couple of ways to make the marriage work or if he (the pastor0 wants to marry the girl himself, he should tell us.
ReplyDeleteShe has the support of her parents and inlaws to be, I will advice her to go ahead and marry him. They've come a long way. There are fake and real pastors, am not judging though...death is inevitable, it is a sure end. Remember for better for worse.
ReplyDeleteI don't trust that pastor..If both parents give their blessing, they have a GO
ReplyDeleteFrom the look of things, the lady and her fiancee don't worship in the same church. Most pastors are in the habit of seeing these "Visions" when they feel the lady is about to be taken away from their church. I'll advice the lady n her fiancee to fast n pray on their own, God will reveal to them whatever revelation there is to know. If there isn't any, they should go ahead n have a wonderful union in another church. I wish them the best.
ReplyDeleteFake pastor.
ReplyDeleteAnita fast and pray God could also show you a sign , I feel sorry for you tho.
ReplyDeletePastors of our tym, we jt cant tel ᴰ real thang.... М̣̣̥̇̊Ɣ sis, jt pray ² God ⁴ answers, He neva fails. Trust me.
ReplyDeleteNne once u commit ur relationship to God and ur parents blesses u two, ur gud to go...
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing prayers cannot do,just take everything to God in prayers...Pray seriously about it(fast and do mid night prayers)Don't be scared cos once fear comes in,d devil will take advantage of that.So ma dear,nothing dey happen....Be positive!!!!
ReplyDeleteAll these pastors dis days °̩ don't trust dem. Dats how some1 said pastor told her not to travel and see her bf bcos there's accident on the road(lwkmd)....°̩ don't bliv all dis pastors. Marry ur guy and enjoy ur marriage. Pray for Gods help. Bcos ♈ōϋ will surely regret if ♈ōϋ runaway from ur man bcos of wot pastor said. Follow ur heart.
ReplyDeleteWell i think his not a pastor or a minister but if u have d permission of both parents then i believe that's enough to go to some other church and get married because u alone know your with the person u want to marry
ReplyDeleteAll these pastors dis days °̩ don't trust dem. Dats how some1 said pastor told her not to travel and see her bf bcos there's accident on the road(lwkmd).°̩ don't bliv all dis pastors. Marry ur guy and enjoy ur marriage. Pray for Gods help. Bcos ♈ōϋ will surely regret if ♈ōϋ runaway from ur man bcos of wot pastor said. Follow ur heart.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, tell dat motherfucker to shove his money down his throat and walk away. ♈ōϋ don't wanna marry him and dats all dat matter PERIOD.....I mean "full stop".....hehehehehehehe
ReplyDeleteCounselling or something similar should be available before people get in to a relationship so that they are prepared for what they are getting into to explain the implication of a relationship, how to deal with different scenarios, how to recognize abusive behavior and understand the consequences of abusive behavior, to understand individuals rights in a relationship etc. Getting counselling when everything has start to fall apart is most of the time too late!!I suggested couple therapy when i newly met my husband,but he declined.Few months into the relationship i started to notice some fishy behaviors and unusual lies,recently i saw a referral on site on a cyber hacker''hackingloop6@gmail . c o m'' also available on + 1 712 292-2655'' whom i applied for his service that helped me hack and gain remote access to all his phone activities and exposed all he was doing behind me,both dating sites and phone calls.Our relationship is strained and lack the physical connection we craved for.
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