Dear Kela,
I have a huge problem
right this very moment! My girlfriend slaps me every time I get her pissed, I can’t
remember how it started but I hoped she would stop. Last week, after
an argument, which made me swear impulsively at her, she slapped me and for the first time
I lost it and retaliated, I beat her up mercilessly. After which she fell ill, though
I took full responsibility of her medicals I am scared she is might call it
quits after she recovers.
Please what do I do?
Adeyemi
As soon as she recovers, make up with her and never lay a finger @her again, and also avoid using swear words on her if u truely love her. Lastly u guys should settle your differences, tell her things she does u don't like and let her make hers known to you as well. Make her understand you're the man in the relationship and slapping a man isn't acceptable in our culture. You see! And life goes on, the relationship becomes more healthy and steady. That's all i have to advice Ade.
ReplyDeletemen don't beat up ladies...boys do. so u need to man up. dont get her upset if u can. but if she slaps u, figure out a way to deal with that but don't go physical. But then, if u must keep up with the lady, u must understand her temperament. so each time u vex her...na slap u go chop...lolxx. if u can't tolerate her, let her go...BUT NEVER EVER LAY A HAND ON A WOMAN #BROTHERS' CODE#
ReplyDeleteI don't support beating a woman but for a womam to slap a man at the slightest provocation is rubbish.we shouldn't allow love to becloud our sense of reasonning here.its not once,its twice.she should show u that respect.one day she will disgrace u outside unknowingly.should stop it pls.Obum from owerri
ReplyDeleteGoing physical after any argument or disagReement is bullshit. She got what she deserve...maybe dat wiLl teach her not to do dat in d future, cos no man will tolerate such.
ReplyDeleteYou need to sit her down and make her unstand she got what she asked for and let her know if she loves you she should stop the habit of slapping you and my brother never lay your hands on a woman just walk away.
ReplyDeleteSection 25 subsection 3 of the 2011 #bro's code act states dat a bro shall not lay his hands on a female no matter wot. But section 30 sub 5 of this same bro code says that if this female repeats dis preposterous act again and again, the bro has the full backing of the law to land her as multiple dirty slaps as possible to cover for the previous unretaliated one...#Gbam
ReplyDeleteBeating up a lady nt cool @ all, she too doesn't hv d right to slap u, try n settle ur differnces like matured pple, call her to order, n dose tins dat gets her very upset, run frm it, b more like best frenz dan fighters loool!
ReplyDeleteBeating. Or hitting a lady is so wrong, if your in a relationship you have to be patient and control your anger no matter what, we all know how women talk, my personal advise she makes you angry walk out nd have a rethink bout what happend then make up later when the tention is reduced... #lebron
ReplyDeleteI'm d president of "DON'T LAY HANDS ON A LADY CLUB", I'm xo not in support of it. In R/ships there will be fights & arguments, hw u handle it mks u a REAL MAN, buh dat doesn't gv ladies d advantage 2 do wateva.... Communication z vry Vital in a r/ship, xo I'll suggest an apology will do, buh most important, talk about d fyt, wat caused it, ur dislikes,her dislikes, the way forward etc... Gudluck!
ReplyDeleteEverybody talks,about beating a lady and all dat.what,about a lady slaping a man at any slightest provocation.my broda if she tries dat again without good reasons to do so.deal with her.chikina.obum from owerri
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